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[velvetechos]

Today is the seventh of Wrzesien. For some odd reason Ki thought it was much more along in the month than that. Anyway, back to the school and work bit today. No more extended weekends for a while now. Not until next month anyway. Cheryl is wanting me to visit California for my birthday. Am thinking that Ki should go out either the weekend before or after though. And if she'd ever call me back we could talk about it! yunalilly Ki left you a message yesterday dammit!

Ki thinks someone should smack her if she doesn't stop listening to this etam David Cassidy CD. *runs off and puts on Rhapsody* There we go. Much better.

Someone, that shouldn't be, has been treating me kind of shit lately, and Ki really doesn't deserve it (and just to narrow the list, before people get worried, it's someone in Idaho). Not sure what to say to the person in question yet, so, haven't said anything, really. It's just general taking things out on me, that don't really have anything to do with me, like, if they've had a crap day, and Ki wasn't there, and therefore has no idea how their day was, and Ki's trying to be conversational, and says something like "So, how was your day" and they turn around and yell at me, and say "I don't know. It sucked. I'm sick of this", or something to that effect, and general biting my head off, it's rude, it's mean, and it's starting to hurt my feelings. Ki's not angry with the person in question, because Ki is understanding enough to know this isn't directed at me, and it's their general frustratrion with their own situation, but, it's not nice.

It does hurt my feelings, and really, they should quit, because
a) aside from me, not many other people in the world will put up with it, so it isn't a good habit to put into practise.
b) doing that to me in front of other people makes the person doing this look like a jerk, and it makes me look bad for sitting there as a doormat and taking it, without saying anything.
c) it does hurt me, and therefore will someday put a strain on the friendship even if it isn't right now.

Comments

[lillykat.livejournal.com]

*hugs*

[britlover.livejournal.com]

I know just what you are going through. I will say straight up that it is wrong and verbally abusive for others to take out all their frustrations on you. There is no excuse for this no matter what. People who care about you shouldn't want to make you hurt or feel sad or upset. I would tell them how you feel and if they can't deal with that then they obviously don't care about you.

[velvetechos.livejournal.com]

Hey! Left a comment on the last entry you put in your journal, you should go check it out!